Classes & Workshops
Classes for Mental Health
Workshops for Skilled Habits
Learn To BE Mentally Healthy
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- Please review the class and workshop descriptions and make note of the class or workshop titles and numbers you are interested in attending.
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- You will be contacted by phone and email when the next class or workshop you prefer is schedule with the dates and times of your four week class or workshop.
Classes teach Wise Consciousness for your Mental Health and are PREREQUISITES to all Workshops.
CLASS # C01 -- Understanding Your Feelings as Different From Your Emotions
- What did you learn about feelings and emotions from your family of origin and your childhood, adolescence, and adult communities?
- How do you now value your feelings in your family and communities?
- Where in your body do you experience the energy of your feelings?
- Do you validate your feelings, and can you consciously encode your feelings into language?
- Do your feelings inform your needs, and do your needs direct corrective action via emotion, i.e., behavior?
- Do you have the courage to express your emotions, and can you self-soothe when the responses from others hurt?
CLASS # C02 -- The Quartet of Self-Doubt, Demystifying Anxiety, Worry, Procrastination, and Depression
- How did you learn you were suffering from an Anxiety or Depressive Disorder or acquired the title Worry-Wort or Procrastinator?
- If we eliminated the words anxiety and depression, what would we be talking about now?
- If worry and procrastination were never invented, what would you likely learn about yourself?
- Has your pathogenic labels alienated you from the spontaneous experience of your natural feelings?
- Has your pathologized identity or labels that carry social disapproval robbed you of your potential and trapped you in self-doubt?
- Are you aware of the Myths, Mysteries, and subjectivity surrounding psychopathology?
CLASS # C03 -- Substance Abuse & Other Self-Destructive Habits "What's Going On?" Marvin Gaye's Mega Hit Asks The Right Question For This Class
- Habits involve thought and behavior. Obsessions are thoughts, and compulsions are behavior; let us explore the relationship between Habits-Obsessions & Compulsions (HOC).
- All HOCs have stages beginning with experimentation and ending with addiction.
- Life's challenges often lead to adverse experiences causing suffering and the need for comfort. Where do we go for our relief?
- When adversity overwhelms our coping skills, The need for relief feels urgent.
- The author John Gray used the term: "Living Out-Of-Scarcity." Insufficient support systems + inadequate coping skills + Self-defeating habits = No relief.
- Mood-altering fixes: Food, Sweets, Alcohol, Drugs, Gambling, Sex, Shopping, Exercising, Sport are HOCs that become self-destructive.
Workshop teach skilled habits that RECOVER from the harm your mental health suffered from self-doubt.
WORSHOP # W01 - Practices to Master the Skilled Habits to Embrace Feelings and Confidently Express Your Emotions
- Everything is energy, sitting with feeling energy.
- Epidermal inputs, feeling the energy from external sources.
- Internal sources of energy, the Vagus Nerve, afferent energy transmission.
- Mind is a verb regulating the flow of energy and information.
- Embracing the spontaneous and conscious experiences of feeling
- Affect how family, culture, and mores influence our regulator value system.
- Converting feelings into emotion (language and behavior) with courage, yielding confidence.
- The five psychosocial phases of the mastery of feelings: are a) spontaneous experience, b) validating, c) encoding, d) emoting, and e) self-soothing.
WORKSHOP # W02 - Living Free of Self-Doubt Practicing Skills to Eliminate Anxiety, Worry, Depression, and Procrastination.
Us Three sang, "Got bad knowledge of self, got sad knowledge of self, got mad knowledge of self. Gotta-get good knowledge of self gotta-get-it."
- Sitting with feelings to allow need and corrective action plan to percolate.
- Visit your library of experiences, cataloging the unnatural and incorrect meanings of self that fuel your self-doubt.
- Credit the authors of the unnatural and incorrect messages you inculcated and reframe correct compassionate meanings.
- Embracing the coherency of your revised Autobiographical Narrative (CAN), allowing this CAN to restore belief in self to eliminate self-doubt.
- Embracing fear as an appropriate and natural feeling requiring corrective attention such as caution, preparation, and rehearsal.
- Using critical thinking and problem-solving to move forward confidently.
- Develop a self-care plan of positive attitudes toward self, others, and life.
WORKSHOP # W03 - Recovering From the Self-Defeating Habits With Their Obsessions & Compulsions.
- Synanon, the Grandfather of Recovery, Was a Life Sentence & Partially Correct to the 28-Day Promised Recovery Centers and Their Pitfalls.
- Embracing Suffering as a Natural Experience in Life.
- The Skills to Manage Our Feelings: Spontaneity, Validation, Encoding, Emotion, Self-Soothing.
- Redefining Our Understanding of Trust and Attachments.
- Skilled Habits: Taking-In-The-Good, Being In-Joy-To Enjoy, Following-Your-Curiosity, Discovering-Your Passions, Empathic-Assertion, Vulnerable-Intimacy, Loving-Kindness, Devotion-To-Self-Care.